A Blessing for my family from our book discussion – A new sleeping tactic for toddlers

A Blessing for my family from our book discussion – A new sleeping tactic for toddlers

By Vanessa Ressler, volunteer and mommy of 1 3/4 daughters

I recently joined the Open Tent’s discussion group for the Blessing of a Skinned Knee, though I first started reading and reflecting on this most interesting text when my daughter Orli was born 22 months ago.  For those of you that haven’t read it, the book is written by a mother/therapist/teacher that has undertaken a spiritual journey of sorts to find relevant solutions to raising children in today’s world using Jewish teachings.

During our first chat, all of us moms got a chance to voice a particular challenge that we are having in our own homes.  Some talked about completing homework, some talked about shyness, and I talked about sleep!  My fiery little one has gotten into the unfortunate habit of waking and calling for me every day between 5:30 and 6am.  ”Mommy, leche! (milk in spanish)  Moooommmmmmmyyyyyy!” is all I hear until I stumble in there, bleary eyed and slightly annoyed, preaching to her about the value of sleep and the need to stay in bed until dawn (which she obviously does not care to hear).

After this session, I went home determined to find a new tactic for dealing with this early waking behavior.  Someone had recently told me about a stoplight clock that is parent-programmed – a red light shines all night until the desired wake-up time, at which point it turns to green.  There is no noise, so if the toddler happens to still be asleep at, say, 7am, it will not wake him/her.  I went on the prowl and found an adorable clock online [can we add this stoplight sleep enhancing clock on amazon to our astore and hotlink to it here??], complete with a little girl in a convertible car with a butterfly on the side, and had it shipped express.

When the package arrived, we sat down together and explored the new toy.  I demonstrated the red and green lights, and explained that she couldn’t call for me and ask for her bottle until the green light came on.  (It’s ok to wake up and even play quietly in her room, but no yelling.)  We are now 5 nights in – and she has waited until 7am for 4 of 5 of these nights!   The first morning, instead of “Mommy leche!” I heard “Light?  Mommy, light!”  It was like music – I haven’t woken up with such a bounce in my step in a long time.

This experience was a valuable lesson not only for me, Mommy, but for Orli as well.  She is giving me a little sanity to wake up and have a cup of tea or a little cereal before our day begins, and she is learning how to tell when it is time to get up.  She is also being given the freedom to play on her own until I come to her, which I always do.  Now I’m just a little more rested (at least for the next 5 weeks until the new baby is born).  :)

Starting Off 2010 With A Big Schmooze

By Jenni Person, Artistic Director, The Open Tent

One of the most striking sentiments rising from the buzz at the annual Schmooze conference, a gathering of artists and arts professionals working Jewishly, was “At an economic time such as this, if you have to choose between being safe or taking a risk: take a risk,” with the idea being we have nothing to lose.

Having started our conversation with a stirring keynote address from Rabbi Irwin Kula of CLAL in which he centered on the idea of art for art’s sake and not for an external agenda related to numbers, this resonated as a call for unabashed artistic innovation and communal support for it. As much as I agree wholeheartedly in the idea of arts for art’s sake, something I live and breathe by, I also believe that inherent in art is an experience of identity and the possibility for community-building and social change. And Jewish culture in particular has a long history of a role in those things – from the centrality of liturgical music used to draw together a community in the beit knesset, the Hebrew term for synagogue that literally translates as “house of gathering,” to the Yiddish Theatre’s role in the Labor Movement to the current renaissance of Jewish culture that draws those even on the outermost fringes to a Matishayu show and its associated Shabbat Tent at, for example, Langerado.

And the art for art’s sake that paraded across the conference and its associated Oy!hoo Music Festival was indeed glorious. Choreographer Adam MacKinney of DNAWorks presented an excerpt from his multimedia piece HaMapah which explores his rich mixed family history mingling Jewish and African heritage. An accomplished dancer who has worked with a range of leading companies including Alvin Ailey, MacKinney has served as a US Embassy Culture Connect Envoy to South Africa. The piece combines documentary video, visual image, text and dance features an opportunity to watch MacKinney move, punctuating statements about expanding definitions of identity as he extends his long body throughout the space.

Another favorite of mine was Yiddish Princess, a Yiddish-singing classic punk band fronted by Sarah Gordon, a boisterous presence who couldn’t have been more generous with her energy and great pipes. The band’s tight, layered and dense sound is enhanced by the fluid and deeply soulful embodiment of Yiddish culture. Frontwoman Gordon’s substantial Yiddish literacy arises from the fact that she is of Yiddish culture royalty, indeed a Yiddish princess as the daughter of celebrated Yiddish singer Adrienne Cooper, who certainly holds the title of Yidddish Queen. Gordon was born and raised surrounded by this language and culture – exposed from birth to all of the great artists with whom her mother collaborates and jams around the country and the world, including some of the Princess’ own bandmates…when they are not luxuriating in punk.

Schmooze was also a nice opportunity to connect with artists who have been inside the Open Tent with us before including Susannah Pearlman of Nice Jewish Girls Gone Bad who has some new tricks up her sleeve; and Frank London who played an incredible set with fellow Klezmer-maven and Klezmatics bandmate, Lorin Sklamberg that accentuated the fact that these guys simply breathe music. Another artist from past Open Tent seasons I ran into was Alicia Rabins, a band member of Golem who is now additionally touring with her new band Girls In Trouble, which released its first CD on JDub Records this fall. I was psyched to get to hear Girls In Trouble live for a second time because their sound is so fulfilling and their lyrics so compelling. The girls in trouble to which the band’s name refers are in fact women of the Torah and their gender-based struggles – the band itself being Rabin’s thesis project for her recent graduate work in Jewish studies. The band’s sound is informed by a similar neo-klezmer/gypsy-punk sound as Golem infused by rich middle eastern sounds that fill the space to embrace the listener seemingly in the place of the Biblical stories.

Other musical highlights of the Schmooze and Oy!hoo included the ever-exciting and eclectic Soulfarm and kosher Gospel king Jonathan Nelson who each put on great shows at the festival.

Seder As Art

By Jenni Person, Artistic Director, The Open Tent

During last Passover 2009, Arts Inside The Open Tent presented an alternative, creative Passover Seder as Art, promoting alternative access to the Passover experience. In conjunction with its exhibition, Growing Up Comix: JT Waldman, in partnership with Art Center/South Florida, the Seder As Art tied-in the graphic novelist’s piece Four Children, originally commissioned by Nextbook, while engaging artists in a variety of media (performing, media and visual arts) with their own interpretations of parts of the Haggadah. Participating artists were Kevin Arrow Andrea Askowitz, Hannah Lasky, Zammy Migdal, Rhonda Mitrani, Carmel Ophir & Howard Davis, and JT Waldman.

Seder As Art stood out as a successful interdisciplinary art experience not only because it relied on the intermix of a variety of disciplines, but also because of its play between art and audience – an experiential reinterpretation of tradition. The project served as a virtual aesthetic Seder which took guests (otherwise known as on Second Saturday gallery night art enthusiasts prowling the Design District’s offerings) through aspects of the traditional Passover Seder from the memory and nostalgia referenced in a mixed-media installation, My Matzo by Zammy Migdal to through a literal figurative print of a halo-ed Elijah by Hannah Lasky. Like an actual Seder, the project prodded and struck deep to provoke questions and stirred guests to examine contemporary issues in the face of the historical story of the journey from the narrow place of oppression to redemption.

In addition to Waldman’s piece, the project included Four Questions, a video installation by Rhonda Mitrani that juxtaposed text, sound, and video footage to question if the contemporary condition of media image bombardment numbs us to the fact that the same issues of oppression still exist.

Kevin Arrow’s Untitled (Recipe Box) was to the naked eye purely nostalgia as an installation of a wooden recipe box out of which he pulled and arranged mostly handwritten recipes for standard Ashkenazi Jewish recipes such as stuffed cabbage, matzah brei and brisket. His artist statement connected it to memories of his grandmother’s cooking and stories of another life in an Odessa shtetl surviving Cossack rampages. The very image of the balabusta, a Yiddish term of endearment and praise for a skilled Jewish homemaker (the literal translation is “master of the house”), in the kitchen of Arrow’s more upwardly mobile American childhood ably and abundantly providing for two generations of family served as a strong symbol of redemption. As the producer of this project I was fortunate to also hear another story of redemption. Arrow spoke of his acquisition of the box, discovered amongst a gutter full of discards. As he perused the refuse he came across hand-notated books and such treasures that it seemed someone else perceived of as trash. Thankfully Arrow redeemed some books, including cookbooks and the recipe box from annihilation giving it a new life amongst his own palette and in our installation.

Woman Arrested for Wearing a Tallit at Western Wall

By Rabbi Gayle Pomerantz, Open Tent Founding Director

I remember the first time I ever visited the Western Wall (also known as the Wailing Wall or Kotel).  I was 16 years old and visiting Israel on the Alexander Muss High School in Israel program.  I had this vision in my head of what it would be like to see the Wall for the first time, to touch it with my own hands, to smell the ancient city of Jerusalem…and I was utterly disappointed.  First of all, the Wall looked much smaller than I had imagined, particularly the women’s side, which appeared to be about half the size of the men’s.  Secondly, on the women’s side of the Wall, nothing was happening.  All the action was on the men’s side – dancing, singing, praying out loud.  And then, what was especially irksome, was that many women and girls had lined up by the partition, and were watching the activity on the men’s side, without any thought to making things happen on the women’s side.  I vowed then and there, that I would one day return to the Wall and with devotion and love, bring life to the women’s side.

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The Open Tent & Sleepless Night

By Jenni Person, Artistic Director, The Open Tent

On Saturday, November 7 I had one of those extraordinary days that reminds me why I do what I do.

In preparation for Oy-Le!, our first Sleepless Night presentation (we did two), I spent the afternoon at the rehearsal/jam session of Heavy Shteltl Klezmer and Siempre Flamenco – five musicians who came together to fuse their unique, culturally-specific sounds. It was inspiring to see this small group of strangers walk into a room together, set up their instruments and equipment and proceed to connect through music. Like small talk at a cocktail party, pitch and rhythm mingled, musicians smiling at each other and laughing at points when musical phrases landed in mutually favorable places in the audio-sphere of our make-shift rehearsal room at Temple Emanu-el on Miami Beach.

Two hours later we were on our way to the Lummus Park Mainstage at 8th Street and the ocean where our juxtaposed jam was to take the stage at 6:30. It was a total thrill to be amongst the Sleepless Night hullabaloo right there on Ocean Drive, surrounded by arts enthusiasts and the anticipation of all the wondrous things that were to come throughout the night. With the first downbeat of Oy-Le! the small crowd that had been waiting swelled to double and triple its size as people were drawn to the unique sound resulting from the layering of Klezmer and Flamenco. Young and old, Jewish and non, Miamian and tourist, danced along to the rich rhythms which proved doubly familiar and accessible. The audience had a blast – but at the center of this joy was that of the musicians who shared the stage and shared the music from within themselves.

After the show I raced with a volunteer and a mic stand up the beach to Lincoln Road for our 8pm presentation of Lip Schtick in partnership with Lip Service hosted by Books & Books and Design Within Reach. What a buzz awaited us as audience streamed in for our show. Again, we welcomed an incredibly diverse audience – this time all having come out for compelling stories of contemporary Jewish experience. And compelling it was as voices soared into hearts – despite a sound system glitch that rendered my mic-stand-schlepping useless. The solid line-up of writers sharing their words about their names, their families, their stomachs, and all by way of connecting to their Jewish identity was as gloriously diverse as the enthusiastic audience. They were young and old, gay and straight, kosher and treyf.

The words that got put out there – tightly woven text relaying this broad variety of Jewish identity and experience – provided access points for everyone. And it was again the resulting incredibly joyful energy of artists and audience that was so dense you could practically see it. If you missed it, all the pieces can be viewed online via YouTube at the Lip Service site (not yet posted).

YAROQ, Judaism & Mindful Eating

By Rabbi Gayle Pomerantz, Open Tent Founding Director

I just read in the paper that the Swedes are starting to put a new label on food – not the calorie number or protein content, but the amount of carbon used to produce and transport the product (e.g. “Climate declared: .87 kg CO2 per kg of product”, New York Times, October 23, 2009).   I have heard that the average meal travels an astonishing 1500 miles from farm to fork.

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Arts A-Jen-da

By Jenni Person, Artistic Director, The Open Tent

Welcome to the first installment of my Jewish arts blog. So, what’s Jewish about Jewish art? And what constitutes a Jewish story? I sit here, surrounded by cats, a sleeping kid, and my beloved tapping away at his own keyboard as he puts his finishing touches on one of the pieces he is submitting for our November 7 performance of Lip Schtick: Jewish Stories from some of Miami’s most loud-mouthed Jews (and their friends!). When I first approached Andrea Askowitz of Lip Service, an organization that produces the secular version regularly at Books & Books in Coral Gables, about partnering up to create Lip Schtick, I did so with the goal of celebrating fresh voices and alternative perspectives on Jewish identity. From the get-go this project was about throwing open the doors so widely as to embrace a supreme spectrum of definitions of identity and story. And such is the place from which we work at The Open Tent with our Arts mission of: The Open Tent presents performance, visual, literary, and media arts programs rooted in Jewish identity, tradition, practice, culture and/or text.

Last year I was fortunate to be invited by the Foundation for Jewish Culture to participate in a think-tank for New Jewish Music as they embark on building a music program at the Foundation. Surrounded by some of our generation’s most significant Jewish musicians at a retreat center in upstate New York, I was intrigued by the bold words of conductor and academic Leon Botstein claiming that “there is no such thing as Jewish music, only music made by Jews.” And while I humbly disagree with this statement from such a leader, I did agree with his urging that not any one thing is Jewish music – mainly because I think Jewish music, just as Jewish culture in general, can and needs to be many things – just as diverse as Jews ourselves.

To me, Jewish culture is broad and sweeping, defined by association just as in our mission. It is culture that in some way touches on or is influenced by any or all elements of what Jewish is. So, whether it’s Lip Schtick or Seder As Art or Klezmer revivalist Frank London jamming with a salsa band in Flamingo Park where generations earlier my grandparents kibitzed in Yiddish with other snow-bird socialists, it’s Jewish art to me. But ultimately, it’s perhaps a fluid and amorphous experience that touches different people in different ways. Because there’s more than one way to be Jewish, there’s more than one way to be Jewish art. And there’s way more than one Jewish story.